Paperwork First Sort A simple sorting guide for the night when the papers are the problem. Pile one - orders and notices ----------------------------- - Court notices, orders, parenting plans, support orders, deadlines, and anything with an official date or signature. - This pile usually matters first because it tells you what doorway is already active. Pile two - support and stability records ---------------------------------------- - Housing notices, lease papers, utility notices, school records, child-care notes, medical records, or support paperwork that explain the strain on the family. - Keep only what helps explain the next practical question. Pile three - timeline and communication notes --------------------------------------------- - Your own short timeline, contact notes, missed exchanges, unanswered requests, or clinic notes. - Do not turn this into a wall of text. Keep it short enough to use. After the first sort -------------------- - Put the next hearing date, call date, or deadline on the top of the folder. - Use the plain-English guide if the wording itself is blocking you. - Use the Family Hub or call-notes sheet when you are ready for the next doorway.